Can you reconcile at mediation?

Whilst reducing conflict is a key feature and benefit of mediation, mediation is suitable only for couples who have determined that their relationship has ended.

Mediation is a safe space to discuss matters arising from a separation or divorce. It is not relationship therapy and, whilst mediators are trained to help separating couples communicate, they are not trained to assist with reconciliation. During the mediation process, couples may decide to reconcile but it is not the specific aim of the process.

Couples who are experiencing conflict or difficulties in their relationship but who hope to preserve their relationship may find it helpful to consult with a relationship counsellor with appropriate therapeutic qualifications with that goal in mind.

Mediators can signpost couples to appropriate therapeutic support if they wish to consider reconciliation rather than separation.

Whilst mediation is not focused on reconciliation, the process does aim to reduce conflict and find practical and focussed solutions for each family. Where a separating couple have children together, reducing conflict after separation can help to foster and preserve an amicable co-parenting relationship into the future.

Blake Morgan’s specialist family mediators can assist separating families to reach agreements on all matters arising from their separation. We work proactively and constructively with families, exploring options and considering practical solutions to try to enable families to move forward without acrimony or distress.